Outrage As Malaysian Female Minister Advises Husbands To Beat ‘Stubborn’ Wives

A Malaysian female minister has sparked outrage after she advised husbands to beat their ‘stubborn’ wives ‘gently’ to discipline them for ‘unruly’ behaviour.

Siti Zailah Mohd Yusoff, the deputy minister for women, family and community development, was accused of ‘normalising’ domestic violence by urging men to strike their wives to show how strict he is and ‘how much he wants her to change’.

In a two-minute video posted on Instagram called ‘Mother’s Tips’, the deputy minister firstly advised husbands to ‘discipline’ their ‘stubborn’ wives by speaking to them. But if they did not change their behaviour, then they should sleep apart from them for three days.

‘However, if the wife still refuses to take the advice, or change her behaviour after the sleeping separation, then the husbands can try the physical touch approach, by striking her gently, to show his strictness and how much he wants her to change,’ Siti Zailah said in the video.

The deputy minister, who is an MP for the Pan-Malaysian Islamic Party, also urged women to only speak to their husbands if they have permission in order to win over their partners.

‘Speak to your husbands when they are calm, finished eating, have prayed and are relaxed,’ Siti Zailah said. ‘When we want to speak, ask for permission first.’

A coailition of women’s rights groups, the Joint Action Group for Gender Equality, accused Siti Zailah of ‘normalising’ domestic violence and demanded she resign from her position as deputy women’s minister.

‘The deputy minister must step down for normalising domestic violence, which is a crime in Malaysia, as well as for perpetuating ideas and behaviours that are opposed to gender equality,’ a joint statement read.

The organisation said between 2020 and 2021, there were 9,015 police reports on domestic violence and those figures will in reality be higher as they do not include the women who have reported abuse to charities.

‘There is often a stigma and fear attached to reporting domestic violence and this is made worse by statements such as those of Siti Zailah,’ the women’s rights groups said.

They added: ‘As a minister who is meant to uphold gender equality and the rights of women to protection and safety, this is abhorrent, denies women the right to equality, their right to dignity and to be free from degrading treatment.

‘It is grossly mistaken and a demonstration of failed leadership.’

Siti Zailah’s remarks echoed a verse from the Quran, which described men as ‘caretakers of women’ who can ‘discipline them gently’ if they are disobedient.

The deputy minister has in the past been criticised for her views and in 2020 she sparked outrage after she suggested women ‘accept, remain patient and forgive’ their abusive spouses.

The minister for women and family, Rina Harun, has also been criticised by women’s rights groups after she said wives should ‘avoid nagging’ their husbands.’

‘If you see your partner do something that is contrary to what you want, avoid nagging but use humorous words like “this is the way to hang up clothes to dry darling”,’ Harun said during lockdown in advice for couples.

Source: Daily Mail